It's the refrain of millions of working mothers across the country who exit fast-track careers in their 30s.
Much of the research on work-life conflict focuses on harried working mothers trying to juggle everything, desperate for more time, with lots of reasons to leave work early. But an even higher proportion of single women yearn for more free time; 68% of childless women say they would prefer having more time over more money, compared with 62% of women with children, according to a 2011 More magazine survey of 500 college-educated professional women over 34.
"People talk about, how do working mothers do it? But how do singles do it?" says Sherri Langburt, founder of www.SingleEditionMedia.com, a New York agency that advises brands on marketing to singles. Without a partner to help, singles must "get the laundry done, get to the gym, buy groceries and get to the job," plus plan social activities or volunteer work and sometimes care for aging relatives, too.
"No one is focusing attention on those women or men, who are achieving such great levels in their careers, all alone," Ms. Langburt says. As more young adults delay marriage into their 30s while career demands intensify, many increasingly feel overloaded.
Conflicts with child-rearing duties are often cited as the reason large numbers of women quit corporate jobs midcareer. But many single women without kids also consider quitting for personal reasons. In a recent McKinsey & Co. study of 60 companies for The Wall Street Journal, researchers surveyed a small sample of women who were planning to leave their companies in the next two to three years and found surprising similarity between reasons cited by mothers and non-mothers—a desire to gain more control over their personal schedules and needs.
Source: The Wall Street Journal, May 23, 2012
Barbara A. McEwen: When Doing It All Won't Do: A Self-Coaching Guide for Career Women--Workbook Edition
John G Agno: Women, Know Thyself: The most important knowledge is self-knowledge.



